Dawn and I had a great time dancing to three live swing bands at the Dance Flurry this past weekend. We love seeing our swing dance friends from around the Northeast here in our home town.
If you are interested in a dance weekend full of new surprises and experiences you must attend the Dance Flurry.
It’s live music all weekend even during the hundreds of dance lessons. Dancers love it, musicians love it and it keep the traditions of many historical dances alive for new generations to enjoy!
Swing dance events are great places to connect with your creativity and meet women who are healthy, beautiful and creative. I met my wife at a swing dance. Here is a short video of a west coast swing dance event near Boston, MA.
It is 2 a.m. and the pro dancers are out dancing with everyone else. It is a real treat to dance with the pros. In this video you will see Lemery Rollins, one of the top west coast swing dancers in the U.S. Enjoy!
Shaggin’ is a romantic activity that often comes from dancin’. It’s also the name of a style of swing dancing from the Carolinas.
Dawn and I attended Spring Safari, one of the two annual Shag dance gatherings in North Myrtle Beach last weekend. Thousands of shag dancers from all over the world came together for 10 days of fun in the sun and sand.
Here is a fun video from our romantic dance getaway.
I love social partner dancing because I can be creative, social and sexy all at the same time. I think I am popular with the ladies because I make them feel good when I am dancing with them.
Did you ever talk with someone and not feel so good afterward? We all have. With proper leading and following communication skills we can all have better interactions and feel better about life.
What I am talking about is rapport. Observing the other person’s posture, tone and listening for what is important to them. When this happens in social partner dancing its like magic.
Here are some of my favorite west coast swing dance videos of people in rapport with each other. Check out how one leader, Ben Morris, creates rapport with several different ladies.
Let me set the stage for you a little bit more. These are videos from a Jack n’ Jill dance competition. When you enter the competition you don’t know who you partner is going to be or what music will be played! The winning couple is the couple that creates the best vibe by being in rapport with each other.
Hot Help Tip #4: Relationships are like dancing, sometimes you lead, sometimes you follow.
I often hear people using the analogy you have to dance with “this” or dance with “that” when they are talking about working with a situation that is challenging. It is true in all communications we give and receive. If we take out the thought of what can I get from this situation and simply be present and aware of what the other person is communicating, life feels better.
Hey guys, I know sometimes talking to a hot girl can be tough. I’ve been there. Since I started social partner dancing when I was 19 in a crowded country bar in Orlando Florida I have never had any trouble meeting women.
In the video below you’ll hear how I met my wife and get a Hot Help Tip of the Day to help you meet the woman of your dreams.
To get more Hot Help Tips, check out our book Want Romance? Learn to Dance. It’s a real affordable way to help yourself get ready to attract the person you’ve always wanted in your life.
Hey, it worked for me.
And guys here’s the catch, we actually have a serious problem on our hand and we need your help.
There are 4 women for every man on the social partner dancing scene. So you have plenty of options and will be fixing a long standing problem the day you step on the dance floor.